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(Originally posted on: 06-03-08 09:59:29 PM)
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Not long ago I made a thread blaming fast food for my lack of sex drive. The fact that my erections with my girlfriend didn't last very long (though surprising what you can get done with a semi-erect penis) had me a little confused, I knew I wasn't healthy so blamed that immediately.

It was kind of annoying that she acted as if she had to do damage control to make me feel like more of a man. I wasn't so much humiliated as annoyed because, to be honest, after a few weeks with this crazy bitch I lost pretty much all intentions of keeping around for long and her pleasure didn't really interest me at this point. She'd say, "It's not all about sex for me, Daniel, you know that." and think of how hard it was for me NOT to tell her that I'm pissed because sex is what it's all about for me! I'm a shithead, whatever.

It was on and off, I could get it up but was mostly difficult to keep it up throughout the entire session. I think there were a lot of things aiding the ED but then while watching porn...I realized I jerk off pretty much as usual with visual aids. This made me think that maybe my issue was the fact that before I dated her, I was watching porn WAY too much and masturbating way too much. Just before I broke up with her I was getting much better at keeping erections, and maybe if we kept going I would have been cured with the more sex we had. She wasn't worth it, but maybe.

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Can what some might say is a porn addiction brought on by many sexless months cause erectile dysfunction once you actually get some real sex?

I haven't had sex since I started eating right and exercising more
more, so I don't know how that really is working out. But I do have difficulty even masturbating without porn, so I am guessing not great. I had this thought the other day, so I took a break and am still taking one but does anyone know if this is something that happens to lots of folks?

It's hard not watching porn. But that was because it was hard not having sex MAGUSMAGUSMAGUSMAGUS never ending cycle of misery!!!
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Reply 1 of 7 (Originally posted on: 06-04-08 03:44:59 AM)
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Could be a combo of both. Ive had friends who commented that eating like shit, stress or too much smut hindered their sexual preformance. If it comes up again id go see your doctor, just to cut off any long term issues.
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Reply 2 of 7 (Originally posted on: 06-04-08 03:35:08 PM)
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Quoted from Mr Excitable:
If it comes up again


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But to answer your question, sometimes I have a similar one where I can't come, no matter how long I go for. It's annoying in the same way because a) the girl feels like she's failing and b) i fucking want to come that's why i'm having sex.

I don't really have any solution except to not jerk off, which seems to work, but also comes with the risk of going too far in the opposite direction MAGUSMAGUSMAGUSMAGUS
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Reply 3 of 7 (Originally posted on: 06-04-08 04:22:19 PM)
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Quoted from Smokey:
Can what some might say is a porn addiction brought on by many sexless months cause erectile dysfunction once you actually get some real sex?


Erectile dysfunction is different than premature ejaculation. When you were with the woman, were you climaxing too fast? If so, that will simply come back after a little practice. I know that if I go one month without sex, my next session will last about 10 minutes, until I get back into the swing of things. Just supplement it with a lot of oral sex man. That is what I do. When I feel myself about to cum, I pull out and go down on her for awhile and I haven't gotten a complaint yet. You will be having two hour sessions again soon enough.

If you just can't keep your boys standing at attention, it might be a little more serious. Maybe you have some sort of psychological block or you just aren't as attracted to this woman as you think you are. Stop watching porn and just fantasize about things. I mean... I have friends that literally can't climax unless they do some fucked up shit (which in my opinion is from watching waaaaaaay too much porn).
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Reply 4 of 7 (Originally posted on: 06-04-08 05:06:06 PM)
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No it wasn't premature, I was having trouble maintaining the erections. I haven't had premature ejaculation since highschool.

Stop masturbating? Holy crap!

I do think it could be a combination of both the health thing and the porn thing. I was attracted to this girl, but you're right, she wasn't all that to me and on the emotional level she wasn't anything.

I didn't get all depressed or feel like less of a man, though. Like Ice said, I was just pissed that I couldn't cum - especially since she could. What the fuck do I care about her pleasure? NOTHING! That's what. Anyway, since my one night stand/clubbing days are pretty much done I don't think I'll be getting laid for a while.
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Reply 5 of 7 (Originally posted on: 06-05-08 02:09:21 AM)
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Anyway, since my one night stand/clubbing days are pretty much done I don't think I'll be getting laid for a while.
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Reply 6 of 7 (Originally posted on: 06-05-08 09:55:03 PM)
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Will someone fall on it?
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Reply 7 of 7 (Originally posted on: 06-06-08 03:49:27 AM)
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if you ask them to, yes
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