Smokey
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Reply 20 of 33 (Originally posted on: 05-07-03 10:45:29 PM)
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Quoted from peach: Firstly, if I were ice, I'd feel bad, too. The guy doesn't realize he doesn't talk loud enough for people to hear, but he'd feel like a jackass if he realized he just blabbed about a vampire washing machine to himself for the past five minutes. I'm sure your whole "no one's feelings matter" thing works wonders for you, but in real life emotions are taken into account.
Don't put words in my mouth. I may not be the best friend around but I care about peoples feelings, to an extent. I wouldn't feel bad for pretending to laugh after hearing the last bit of vampire washing machine, knowing it was nothing I'd respond to otherwise, and his feelings aren't hurt because I've masked the truth that I guess would hurt his feelings. Masking truths, that's what you do to protect peoples feelings all the time, feeling as if you did the right thing, by lying to this friend of yours. I really don't follow that road, normally. Blunt honesty can hurt feelings but I prefer things to be out in the open, and feelings get hurt. And when I say blunt honesty I don't mean insulting someone, but respectfully presenting them with truths reguarding your friendship or lack thereof, I think it's better for them I tell the truth then let them tag along and lie to them constantly. Wasting both our time. And small things like this I take pretty lightly, this particular situation. It's petty. And either way is good enough for me, I just missed some inane praddle, I'd probably just tell him I didn't hear what he said, but with the deeper emotions I take just as much heed as you do. If not more. Don't put words in my mouth.
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