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(Originally posted on: 01-19-03 11:12:42 PM)
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Hi.
I need to vent and I apologize since none of you know me, or anything about me, and although you won't take the time to read this, that's fine, since at least it will feel good to get it off my chest.
Ill start rambling about it ... now.
It started off with me joining another messageboard. It was a teen messageboard with a close-knit community and I found myself really attached to the people. I was a bit of a dick to the owner of the site, and he had personal feelings of dislike towards me, with reason.
One day from my home computer, a friend of mine posted inapropriate links of the famous Fecal Japan picture on the site, and the owner linked it back to me, and I was banned. The owner was happy to be rid of me, however the general population of the site was rather upset at me being banned.
Because at this point I was obsessed with the site,I kept coming back under new names, and each time getting banned.
The problem was, everyone on the site supported me and knew I was innocent. I became over-obssesed with an internet site and the attraction never went away.
It got to the point where I just kept coming back, and then out of personal dislike for the owner, I hacked into a moderator's account and posted porn from her account, and read all the secret moderator forums where they talked about me and everyone else.
The owner of the site called my university, and basically got me in severe trouble. Two security people came to my room and took my computer as evidence against me for when they charge me. I know I took things too far, but I had always looked at real life and internet life as completely different things.
Now I face the possibility of being kicked out of university over an internet site, and I don't know what to do about that.
Also, in real life there are difficulties as well. I cannot even begin to list all the problems that are occuring around me. Some example include my really good male friend taking advantage of my really good female friend when they were drunk... I don't know what to do about that. ..... And the girl I really like likes my GAY friend. And he still likes me. It's all stupid teenager emotional crap that I know won't matter in 10 years though.
But the internet site thing really bothers me. What the fuck should I do.... I don't want this to turn into a big deal.
I am leaving a lot of details out, but I just wanted to give a brief description.
Sorry to complain like this, and I know how irritating it is to listen to complete strangers bitch about their problems. I just wanted to ask help and I figured this might be a good place to ask.
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Reply 1 of 40 (Originally posted on: 01-19-03 11:20:10 PM)
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What's the other messageboard?


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Reply 2 of 40 (Originally posted on: 01-19-03 11:21:34 PM)
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I would rather refrain from saying what the other messageboard is as I would rather not draw attention to my situation on it. Sorry.
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Reply 3 of 40 (Originally posted on: 01-20-03 12:04:55 AM)
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I know the other board MAGUSMAGUSMAGUSMAGUS

Especially as I was the reason he came here. I'm really sorry, Nova. I hope it all works out for you.
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Reply 4 of 40 (Originally posted on: 01-20-03 12:10:54 AM)
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Thanks, Dani.
It won't work out, but hopefully it will just result in a charge rather than me being kicked out of university.
I will be pissed at having to pay a fine of like 50 or 100 bucks but that won't ruin my life or anything. Just no beer for a while.
Thanks for introducing me to this board though. I really need somewhere new to spend my time. I just can't let myself get obsessed like the last one.
I am liking this one better so far.
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Reply 5 of 40 (Originally posted on: 01-20-03 12:12:10 AM)
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Don't let them kick you out of college man, if it's important to you. Say you're sorry and point out your previous record of good behaviour (assuming you have one) and then let logic take it's course
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Reply 6 of 40 (Originally posted on: 01-20-03 12:14:03 AM)
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I know.
Getting kicked out of university over an internet site is ridiculous. I am just staying far away from the site and hopefully things will blow over. More than likely I won't be kicked out, just as long as I stop visiting the site. I've cut off contact with most of the people from there, so that's fine.
I did write a letter of apology to the User Support center at my school for having to deal with the complaints. I also am seeking professional help.


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Reply 7 of 40 (Originally posted on: 01-20-03 01:28:56 AM)
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Venting helped a little, I suppose.
I also talked to some real life people about my real life issues. Argh, my computer is internally beeping and it won't stop and I am going insane.
But yeah.
What would you all do in the following situation:
(Sorry to keep going on, but at least I am containing it to one thread)

My friend kissed my female friend while drunk and now she is claiming he took advantage of her.
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Reply 8 of 40 (Originally posted on: 01-20-03 02:12:28 AM)
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Did they do anything besides kiss?

Because if they didn't she should shut up and stop being a stupid bitch.

If they did I'd have to think about it for a while but I think I would call Alex a prick and tell Bertha not to be so stupid.
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Reply 9 of 40 (Originally posted on: 01-20-03 03:59:38 AM)
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things to be learned from this thread.

1. hacking gets you two things: a) sweet, sweet revenge. b) kicked out of school.

2. never kiss anything named bertha.
...and i don't even care anyfuckingmore.
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Reply 10 of 40 (Originally posted on: 01-20-03 05:03:24 AM)
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Your best male friend is really bad with girls. He is the horniest dude in the world and is so horrible with girls it makes you want to vomit. He is the pure example of a guy who thinks 100% with his dick. Mostly harmless, but he lets things happen too much and is an alcoholic.
You have a good female friend who is also friends with this dude. He liked her for a while and was rejected by her on numerous occaisions.
We will call the obsessive dude Alex and the girl Bertha.
So Bertha has a boyfriend and they recently broke up. Her boyfriend is friends with Alex as well.
Last night while drinking, Bertha got really drunk. She is a very flirtacious girl, and was hitting on a lot of people. Myself included, and Alex included. I, being not an idiot, didn't take advantage of my female friend.
She was outside of the room with Alex and apparently was telling him how she wanted to kiss him. She was plastered. He was a little drunk but not as much as her. He kissed her and she slipped in the tongue and then today she is raving on about how she was violated and he took advantage of her.
He knew that she wouldn't normally want to kiss him. Although she did come on to him. Who's fault is this.
She is also wanting to get one of her ex's to beat Alex up for it. A bit over-reacting over a kiss maybe?
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Totally her fault. I've no sympathy for what happens to people when it's their own fault and they're drunk, myself included. Scenarios like the one above have ended similarly here, except the girl has gone off saying "rape" and caused even more bullshit.
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Reply 11 of 40 (Originally posted on: 01-20-03 05:17:15 AM)
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if your college is in any way computer related, tell them you where experimenting and didn't mean any harm. get them to return your machine because you need to keep up with school work. in short, kiss some ass.

about 'alex' and 'bertha' make them both shut up, she should just deal with it, he is an idiot. if I where you I'd get rid of both.

btw you could've come up with better pretend names. looks like I'm not the only one that thought cow? when I read 'bertha'
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Reply 12 of 40 (Originally posted on: 01-20-03 08:08:14 AM)
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The names were intentionally fake sounding. I like the name Bertha as it reminds me of the fish in Super Mario Brothers 3.
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Reply 13 of 40 (Originally posted on: 01-20-03 04:48:22 PM)
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Well I see more people online so I am posting to get a few more opinions.

She is going to get people to beat him up.
She is my friend, but so is he.
Should I get involved and should I get involved if a physical incident occurs since I am pretty big and Alex is not.
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Reply 14 of 40 (Originally posted on: 01-20-03 05:01:41 PM)
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Protect Alex, for sure. She sounds like a total bitch.
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They say Alcohol removes your inhibitions and allows your Freudian secret desires out.

Tell her that, see how bad she freaks.
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Reply 16 of 40 (Originally posted on: 01-20-03 05:07:48 PM)
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just slap her
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Reply 17 of 40 (Originally posted on: 01-20-03 05:17:18 PM)
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Just Bitch slap her

aka. protect "Alex"


they have to paralize me before they take my comp.....
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Reply 18 of 40 (Originally posted on: 01-20-03 05:26:41 PM)
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Quoted from Stormraider:
They say Alcohol removes your inhibitions and allows your Freudian secret desires out.

Tell her that, see how bad she freaks.



Print up a phony marriage license and tell her how honored you were to be the best man.
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Reply 19 of 40 (Originally posted on: 01-20-03 06:13:23 PM)
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Maybe it's just me, but I don't see how you hacking an internet site has absolutely DICK ALL to do with the University. Somebody explain it to me, I must be missing something.

And about Alex and the Cow, she was drunk, it was her fault. She should consider herself lucky for Alex or any other guy NOT taking her someplace quiet and fucking her madly.
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Reply 20 of 40 (Originally posted on: 01-20-03 06:22:39 PM)
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It doesn't have anything to do with the university, that's why I was so surprised when the security dudes showed up at my door. It was a little embarassing as well, seeing as how the girl I liked was over and it made me look like a convict.
The reasons the university have is that I did illegal things using their computer, but it certainly is getting made into a big deal. Especially since it's turning into a bigger deal than like physical fights and stuff that actually hurts people.
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Reply 21 of 40 (Originally posted on: 01-20-03 06:24:54 PM)
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Quoted from Nova:
It doesn't have anything to do with the university, that's why I was so surprised when the security dudes showed up at my door. It was a little embarassing as well, seeing as how the girl I liked was over and it made me look like a convict.
this is a good thing, it'll impress her. unless you started crying of course.
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Reply 22 of 40 (Originally posted on: 01-20-03 06:28:00 PM)
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Nope, I didn't.
But the security people also bitched at me for having stolen road signs in my room.
She did find it a bit funny.
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Reply 23 of 40 (Originally posted on: 01-20-03 06:28:34 PM)
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Being arrested in front of a girl would be Kickass^2.

Well, I didn't know it was their computer. That changes things, I guess.

Physical fights? HAHA! I can't help but find that funny when somebody threatens bodily harm over something so incredibly stupid. My vote is for buying some brass knuckles and fuck them up nicely. Then go into their house, steal their computers. If you find a way, incorporate HIV in their some way.
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Reply 24 of 40 (Originally posted on: 01-20-03 06:33:03 PM)
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It's somewhat their computer.
We are given it and give it back at the end of the 4 years. Its a laptop. But no one else uses it. It's more a rented computer.

It wasn't really arrested. It wasn't like cuffs or anyting. They just said "Bring your laptop and come with us. We are going to our office and we want to talk to you about something."

She looked a bit... shocked.

Fights are funny. And yes it's really stupid.
The best part is that she thinks her ex boyfriend is really tough as he knows "martial arts".... but he is like 120 pounds. I think size matters more than skill, but perhaps you may have a difference of opinion.
I guess I will stick up for him. I am 210 pounds and I play hockey and other physical activities so I guess i'd be a bit of an asset. I just feel that it's such a waste of energy that could be better spent eating pizza, sitting on my ass, whacking off, or all of the above at same time.

I don't think you can even buy brass knuckles in this shit town.
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