Sunn O)))
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Reply 12 of 26 (Originally posted on: 12-31-02 11:14:04 AM)
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Are you fucking nuts? Why the hell did you let her? You must like that type of shit or something, because anyone in their right mind would still have called the police or at least punched the bitch. Gross.
As Vervet politely noted, I don't like dealing with the cops here that much. The cops here are somewhat inconsiderate, and could care less about this incident. I could probably discuss why I don't like dealing with the cops here that much, but the basics are that they aren't the best cops to deal with at all.
About her coming into the house, it was another story. I never let her in. In the case where she'd come in, she would come in unexpectedly. To explain this further, in the house I was at, at that time, it had a foyea. You couldn't really see much of the foyea from the other rooms, unless you looked out the doors that lead to the foyea. It was basically a closed-in hallway, with a staircase that went upstairs within it. There were doors from the rooms adjacent to the foyea leading to it as well.
In the case where she'd come into the house, I, or anyone else in the house, wouldn't know she was inside until she was in the doorway between the foyea and the room which we were in (often a room adjacent to the foyea). You may be asking why I hadn't already locked the doors? At this time, it was a habit to leave the doors unlocked. Sometimes I'd lock them, but traditionally I would usually leave the door unlocked. Pretty stupid, yes. But sometimes you aren't particularly thinking about the door when you are in a hurry, when you have guests over, or in other cases.
Why didn't I punch her in the face? Well, there's a few factors that go into this. Sure, I would've loved to have punched her in the face, and I had one time when she was over to say "I'm sorry, where in a private conversation," once, which ended up working. I try to avoid confrontation, because that could raise the possibility of her doing something irrational. I would act casual, like she was accepted, but I'd try to get her out of the house, and it worked every time. After these first incidents, I would lock the doors to my house more often, and the incidents died down. I usually avoided outright confrontation at that time, (though I don't really care anymore). Had she not listened to my warnings, or to my decisions of having her leave, then I would've probably have punched her, or atleast drag her out into the front yard. Though, at this point, I'd be risking harrassment charges of some sort.
At first, yes, I had let her stay for a bit, as I explained in that one incident earlier. I was contemplating a way of avoiding, or leaving, which would not involve her. Seeing how I had my car, I thought about that '3 passengers is the limit' thing. Luckily it worked. In the case where I was alone, I would've done something, maybe even called the cops, had she not listened to my warning. Yes, there is a high risk in dealing with her in such a way, but it is better then dealing with her when she would be in a obsessive, angry, upset, confused and overall frustrated mood, if I had done something as in punching her or calling the cops.
There are other factors that went into how I handled this, and personally, at times I look back and think that the decisions I risked were absurd, and at times, highly dangerous. But in the end, they worked.
 *Swigs some 409*
This reply was last edited on 12-31-02 11:27:26 AM by Sunn O))).
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