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(Originally posted on: 06-28-09 03:14:21 AM)
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So here's the deal: I've tried all sorts of masturbation techniques from the Internet, but I just can't cum while awake! About the only other thing within my power I haven't tried is sliding my finger up my ass and playing with my prostate.

I can have erections, but there's little to no sensation at all. When I try rubbing the tip of my penis, I get this sensation that feels kind of like pain--not that it's *painful*, but it's still somewhat unpleasant, and I have to force myself to go further. But nothing I do can even cause precum.

I only began having waking erections recently, after I (almost) got a girlfriend for the first time, which I guess relieved some sort of anxiety issue. Before that, I had the same problem with erections.

At some point or another, it'll be my obligation to cum, so I need to make sure I can do it healthily, for long enough and that it's an acceptable hue. I'd never masturbate for pleasure alone, but that obligation forces me to seek help from you guys.

I can't really speak to my psychologist about this, since they'll probably prescribe something, explaining it to my parents. It would be a waking nightmare for my parents even to know I have erections, let alone talk about my sexual health.

What do you recommend, INTL? Do you know any alternative/herbal treatments for this?
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Reply 1 of 47 (Originally posted on: 06-28-09 10:11:21 AM)
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Your parents already know you have erections. Sorry dude. MAGUSMAGUSMAGUSMAGUS
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Reply 2 of 47 (Originally posted on: 06-28-09 11:22:47 AM)
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Wait until you get a little older. Your balls are probably still in the process of dropping.
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Reply 3 of 47 (Originally posted on: 06-28-09 02:09:13 PM)
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Reply 4 of 47 (Originally posted on: 06-28-09 02:11:57 PM)
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I'd never masturbate for pleasure alone,


Then you're missing the point. No wonder you can't figure out how to do it.
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Reply 5 of 47 (Originally posted on: 06-28-09 06:00:16 PM)
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Okay, one thing to remember is that you are never obligated to ejaculate or orgasm. The only person who is responsible for your orgasm is you, & that goes for both men and women. & if you don't feel like orgasming, then don't.
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I'd never masturbate for pleasure alone

Then don't do it. It's that simple. If you don't like it, you don't like it, and there's nothing wrong with that. I'm sure there are people who will tell you otherwise, but they're the ones who are wrong. When it comes to sexual health, there is nothing more important than honesty with yourself and your partner(s), & being okay with not being interested in masturbation is something you need to accept.

Do you have any interest in intercourse or other sexual relations?
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Reply 6 of 47 (Originally posted on: 06-28-09 06:17:29 PM)
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If you don't have the desire or urge to, you shouldn't be trying.

I'm 800% sure you'll figure it out, but that'll only be because it's pleasurable. Theres no need to try and do this before your body makes you want to (and it will). At that point, it'll all come naturally.

Don't worry about it at all. Like amphy said, theres no 'obligation.' It'll work when it works. If anyone is obligating you to cum at your age, they shouldn't be.
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Reply 7 of 47 (Originally posted on: 06-28-09 06:20:15 PM)
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Maybe you have a medical condition or are taking meds which are preventing you from doing this...?
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Reply 8 of 47 (Originally posted on: 06-28-09 07:00:48 PM)
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I wasn't going to touch this one with a 10 foot pole, but I'll just add that I couldn't figure out how to do it until I was 16.
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Reply 9 of 47 (Originally posted on: 06-28-09 08:22:31 PM)
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it'll be my obligation to cum

Okay, one thing to remember is that you are never obligated to ejaculate or orgasm. The only person who is responsible for your orgasm is you, & that goes for both men and women. & if you don't feel like orgasming, then don't.
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I'd never masturbate for pleasure alone

Then don't do it. It's that simple. If you don't like it, you don't like it, and there's nothing wrong with that. I'm sure there are people who will tell you otherwise, but they're the ones who are wrong. When it comes to sexual health, there is nothing more important than honesty with yourself and your partner(s), & being okay with not being interested in masturbation is something you need to accept.

Do you have any interest in intercourse or other sexual relations?


I'm only a year away from the legal age, which sparks the concern for me. If I can help it, I won't have to cum for a number of years, but I'll be damned if a year of starving and another in improving every way I can finally gets me a relationship, only for it to be taken away because my cum is clear or yellowish, it's too little or too fast, or if I'm completely impotent during waking hours. Maybe I won't need to for quite a while--maybe there's no instance in which I need to cum until marriage, but what then?

I understand what you mean about "obligations", but the fact is men, unless during all-out sexual intercourse (in which case the penis is concealed by a condom) are expected to cum, or the other partner recognizes something is wrong. What then? They're no longer the same kind of guy--even if they're acceptable in looks and personality, they're just not functional. I could be left in the dust.

I have no interest in masturbating or engaging sexual activities any time in the near future, but the other partner will have to think I do for me to be attractive. Maybe I'll be 17, 18, 19, but the statistics show that at some point, the one has to either have had some sort of sexual activity, or be deficient in some way. My partner will be skinny, so I spent a year living up to that. My partner probably won't be sexually deficient, so I need to focus on living up to that.

The motives of seeking help can be debated. Would I even accept a handjob, or anything like that? Not unless I have to so the other person won't dump me in the long-term. But, at the core, it's a health issue--regardless of motives, that issue can be fixed.

I'm just wondering if anyone can suggest alternative treatments for the immediate issue of not being able to cum while awake, if anyone has had a similar problem, and if they might have a solution.

I can completely change what I want to fit what I need.

Thanks so much for the advice, by the way! =D
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Reply 10 of 47 (Originally posted on: 06-28-09 09:03:52 PM)
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http://youporn.com/search?query=handjob&type=straight

Get some lube, try it out.

If you're thinking about how you're incompetent, you're never going to cum. If you're thinking "omg why am i not cumming," you're never going to.

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This is your problem. If a thought ever enters your mind that you have a problem and wont be able to cum, that thought is going to spread like a disease and it's not going to go away unless you somehow forget about it. Sexual pleasure is in large part mental, if you're sitting there and thinking this much:

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I'm only a year away from the legal age, which sparks the concern for me. If I can help it, I won't have to cum for a number of years, but I'll be damned if a year of starving and another in improving every way I can finally gets me a relationship, only for it to be taken away because my cum is clear or yellowish, it's too little or too fast, or if I'm completely impotent during waking hours. Maybe I won't need to for quite a while--maybe there's no instance in which I need to cum until marriage, but what then?

I understand what you mean about "obligations", but the fact is men, unless during all-out sexual intercourse (in which case the penis is concealed by a condom) are expected to cum, or the other partner recognizes something is wrong. What then? They're no longer the same kind of guy--even if they're acceptable in looks and personality, they're just not functional. I could be left in the dust.

I have no interest in masturbating or engaging sexual activities any time in the near future, but the other partner will have to think I do for me to be attractive. Maybe I'll be 17, 18, 19, but the statistics show that at some point, the one has to either have had some sort of sexual activity, or be deficient in some way. My partner will be skinny, so I spent a year living up to that. My partner probably won't be sexually deficient, so I need to focus on living up to that.

The motives of seeking help can be debated. Would I even accept a handjob, or anything like that? Not unless I have to so the other person won't dump me in the long-term. But, at the core, it's a health issue--regardless of motives, that issue can be fixed.

I'm just wondering if anyone can suggest alternative treatments for the immediate issue of not being able to cum while awake, if anyone has had a similar problem, and if they might have a solution.

I can completely change what I want to fit what I need.


then it doesn't matter what magical technique you use, you're going nowhere.
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Reply 11 of 47 (Originally posted on: 06-29-09 09:18:00 AM)
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can't really speak to my psychologist about this, since they'll probably prescribe something, explaining it to my parents.


Mental health is a serious issue and shouldn't be neglected. In my experience, problems like these are typically psychological. Hell, the fact that you think this is a problem is a sign to me that it's psychological.

I'm not a doctor though so it's probably something you need to talk about with a doctor instead of random people on the internet. That's sort of my point, I guess.
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Reply 12 of 47 (Originally posted on: 06-29-09 11:14:34 AM)
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Dimi & Nick are right. Also, you didn't answer my question, which I'll pose again.
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Do you have any interest in intercourse or other sexual relations?

If you are thinking about something so minute as the colour of your ejaculate, then you're far and away overanalyzing. The vast majority of women do not care about the hue of your semen, and those who do are either doctors or not worth their salt. An abnormal semen colour (pink? green?) can be signs of medical problem, but varying in shade from clear to yellow doesn't really matter.

I think you do need to talk to a doctor about this, as Nick suggested. I understand that you don't want to talk to your psychologist about this, but I think you should, regardless of your paranoia about a prescription & your parents' involvement, which isn't necessarily the end result. I don't know if you misused the term, but psychologists are usually involved with the therapeutic side of something, rather than prescribing a pill, something only psychiatrists have the qualifications to do. At the very least, mention it at least to your general practitioner next time you have a physical (something you'll have to do if you're going to college), and go from there.

Your trying to "fix" your "problem" with herbal treatments and altering your physique is misguided, & will get you nowhere.
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Reply 13 of 47 (Originally posted on: 06-29-09 09:28:20 PM)
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Dimi & Nick are right. Also, you didn't answer my question, which I'll pose again.
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Do you have any interest in intercourse or other sexual relations?

If you are thinking about something so minute as the colour of your ejaculate, then you're far and away overanalyzing. The vast majority of women do not care about the hue of your semen, and those who do are either doctors or not worth their salt. An abnormal semen colour (pink? green?) can be signs of medical problem, but varying in shade from clear to yellow doesn't really matter.

I think you do need to talk to a doctor about this, as Nick suggested. I understand that you don't want to talk to your psychologist about this, but I think you should, regardless of your paranoia about a prescription & your parents' involvement, which isn't necessarily the end result. I don't know if you misused the term, but psychologists are usually involved with the therapeutic side of something, rather than prescribing a pill, something only psychiatrists have the qualifications to do. At the very least, mention it at least to your general practitioner next time you have a physical (something you'll have to do if you're going to college), and go from there.

Your trying to "fix" your "problem" with herbal treatments and altering your physique is misguided, & will get you nowhere.


The answer was "no, not for several years."

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Reply 14 of 47 (Originally posted on: 06-30-09 12:55:40 AM)
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Okay guys, maybe I'm sticking my finger up my ass incorrectly, but that doesn't seem to work, either.
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Reply 15 of 47 (Originally posted on: 06-30-09 03:40:04 AM)
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....you really dont listen do you
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Reply 16 of 47 (Originally posted on: 06-30-09 08:01:59 AM)
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I do listen. It's just that I might as well try other things while I look for household items which can serve as lube.
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Reply 17 of 47 (Originally posted on: 06-30-09 08:27:09 AM)
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*slaps forehead*

You don't listen. Don't ask a question if you're not going to listen to what *everyone* has pretty much unanimously said. The lube thing was a light-hearted comment/joke, not real advice.
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Reply 18 of 47 (Originally posted on: 07-01-09 01:23:29 AM)
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Of course I'll talk to a doctor eventually!

But a finger up my ass might've kept the doctor away. No harm in trying.
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Reply 19 of 47 (Originally posted on: 07-01-09 12:34:41 PM)
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I'm now convinced more than ever that this is an elaborate trolling attampt.

I say to you: good day.
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Reply 20 of 47 (Originally posted on: 07-01-09 02:17:27 PM)
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Of course I'll talk to a doctor eventually!

But a finger up my ass might've kept the doctor away. No harm in trying.


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Reply 21 of 47 (Originally posted on: 07-02-09 10:55:27 AM)
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But a finger up my ass might've kept the doctor away. No harm in trying.

Unless of course you haven't found that lube yet
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Reply 22 of 47 (Originally posted on: 07-02-09 11:32:40 AM)
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Remember that time skizzles used olive oil as lube?
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Reply 23 of 47 (Originally posted on: 07-04-09 10:09:07 AM)
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I tried dipping my finger into a glass of water and sliding it up my ass.

No dice.
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Reply 24 of 47 (Originally posted on: 07-04-09 11:47:17 AM)
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