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Hey, I was with Mary Magdalene last night....smell my finger lol

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(Originally posted on: 08-13-06 12:45:47 AM)
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Speaking of which, when are you getting married Alloy? big grin

Thread was split from the Picture thread because people like 15 year old romance.
Adopt a leggo my eggo ifo.
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[01:19] witty tirade: let me get this straight
[01:19] witty tirade: I'm the thin attractive one
[01:19] witty tirade: and you, the fat one, are making fun of me?
[01:19] witty tirade: no sir I do not believe it.

[17:54] <vissario> are you black IFO?

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Reply 1 of 111 (Originally posted on: 08-13-06 12:52:01 AM)
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I assume three or so years. You know, when it's legal in a country he's a citizen of. (As a citizen of the Russian Federation [I have a passport to prove it!] I can get married since last year. He's American. See the problem there?)
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Reply 2 of 111 (Originally posted on: 08-13-06 03:13:08 PM)
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I find it hilarious that you proclaimed that you'll marry this dude, even before you met him in the flesh, alloy.

I mean, with your age, you must realize how hyper-naive you sound?

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If anyone wants to know, I made him look down because all the photos with him looking at the lens were turning out pretty horribly.


omg yah rite fag lol


(oh, and i'm not trying to be an ass towards you on purpose LOL IM SUCH A FAG!!)

And err, i hope you enjoy you marriage and wedding, uselessinfo
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Reply 3 of 111 (Originally posted on: 08-13-06 03:16:00 PM)
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I figure I have only another fifteen years before I finally flip and do something fatally stupid, so it's not like we'll be together for decades. kekeke u give soj???

And I find that being naive usually works out better than being cynical.
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Hey, I was with Mary Magdalene last night....smell my finger lol

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Reply 4 of 111 (Originally posted on: 08-13-06 03:28:40 PM)
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Unless you're making a decision.
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[01:19] witty tirade: I'm the thin attractive one
[01:19] witty tirade: and you, the fat one, are making fun of me?
[01:19] witty tirade: no sir I do not believe it.

[17:54] <vissario> are you black IFO?
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Reply 5 of 111 (Originally posted on: 08-14-06 12:58:31 PM)
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I'll give you, "caveman". this is an emo emoticon, get it??? EMO-TICON!!!
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Reply 6 of 111 (Originally posted on: 08-14-06 01:11:24 PM)
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I'll give you, "caveman". this is an emo emoticon, get it??? EMO-TICON!!!
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Reply 7 of 111 (Originally posted on: 08-15-06 06:50:09 AM)
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I figure I have only another fifteen years before I finally flip and do something fatally stupid, so it's not like we'll be together for decades.


Thats a pretty wierd thing to say. What do you mean?
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Reply 8 of 111 (Originally posted on: 08-15-06 09:10:02 AM)
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I figure I have only another fifteen years before I finally flip and do something fatally stupid, so it's not like we'll be together for decades.


Thats a pretty wierd thing to say. What do you mean?
It means she doesn't have the ambition or drive to make something of her life, maybe because she's afraid she might fail.

It means she hasn't the courage to live for herself.

It means she'll settle for some vague idea of security by agreeing to marry the first boy who wants her because she's afraid there won't be another.

It means she's a weak person.

Which means she’ll get to live to be 80+ something, by not really living at all.

That, or she's just plain naive and stupid, which she'll figure out in fifteen years, and out of sheer panic do something fatally stupid. She's pretty wise too, if she can see that one coming already.

What’s wrong with all you people (except uselessinformation.) Why are you all so eager to get married?
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Reply 9 of 111 (Originally posted on: 08-15-06 09:43:10 AM)
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It's actually because I'm insane (literally) and have psychotic episodes, during which I'm liable to attempt suicide or do something stupid and harmful to myself/others. I figure that unless I get some psychiatric help (I won't) I won't make it past thirty.

As for the "first boy" thing ... well, you're right. There won't be another. No one else is insane enough to put up with me for more than two months.

'Scuse me. I'll come back when I'm in a more sound state of mind.
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Reply 10 of 111 (Originally posted on: 08-15-06 10:02:34 AM)
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It's actually because I'm insane (literally) and have psychotic episodes, during which I'm liable to attempt suicide or do something stupid and harmful to myself/others. I figure that unless I get some psychiatric help (I won't) I won't make it past thirty.

As for the "first boy" thing ... well, you're right. There won't be another. No one else is insane enough to put up with me for more than two months.

'Scuse me. I'll come back when I'm in a more sound state of mind.
As far as I'm concerned, if you are aware of these problems and recognize them for what they are, you wouldn't HAVE to let them rule you.

You could do what you want despite them, not because of them.

But I don't mean to be mean, i'm just blunt. Don't take offence.
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Reply 11 of 111 (Originally posted on: 08-15-06 10:06:46 AM)
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INTL taught me not to take things to heart. At any rate, I'm pretty sure I'm not settling for him. :P

 Anyway, it's not exactly letting my problems rule me ... it's pretty much that any (normal) guy who hears "I think I might have BPD and I'm 90% certain I'm in the autistic spectrum" is going to run a mile.  

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Reply 12 of 111 (Originally posted on: 08-15-06 10:10:25 AM)
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Angst. Ignore.
thats exactly what a smart man will know, he won't run, he'll just be annoyed by your insecurities.
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Reply 13 of 111 (Originally posted on: 08-15-06 10:46:47 AM)
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It's actually because I'm insane (literally) and have psychotic episodes, during which I'm liable to attempt suicide or do something stupid and harmful to myself/others. I figure that unless I get some psychiatric help (I won't) I won't make it past thirty.

As for the "first boy" thing ... well, you're right. There won't be another. No one else is insane enough to put up with me for more than two months.

'Scuse me. I'll come back when I'm in a more sound state of mind.


That's worrying. Not that you have said problems, but you're willing to put the boy/man you supposedly love enough to marry in danger.

Not only that, but you're resigned to the fact that you're probably going to kill yourself by thirty. What's that going to do to this boy you supposedly love?

You're willing to potentially kill him, a person you're supposed to love more than anything (when you're married), and yourself (which, possibly, could kill him) instead of swallowing whatever it is that's holding you back (pride?) and get some help and a chance at a normal life?

.. and you're just planning on marrying him because you think nobody else will have you?

Eh. I like you, but I don't like this.
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Reply 14 of 111 (Originally posted on: 08-15-06 11:05:34 AM)
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I am perfectly willing to get help. In fact, I want to. But my family doesn't believe I have problems. They think whatever kinked wire I have can be straightened out by hard work, dedication and setting goals. I don't get either help or support from any of them. They delight in calling me "retarded" and "abnormal" every time I do something wrong.

And I think that even during one of my ... episodes ... I couldn't hurt him in any way. I'm insane but I'm not stupid. Killing him is definitely not something I'd do, no matter how many screws I lost.

I'm not sure about myself. I'm in a pretty morbid state of mind right now, hence the gloomy predictions of my own untimely suicide. I couldn't do it before, why would I be able to in fifteen years? Eh. I just don't know. I'll try to get help or learn to get through the bad times.

Hell, all I know is that for the eight months we've been together I've found that I've been "coping" a lot better.

And obviously, the original "fifteen years" comment wasn't entirely serious. Terrible thing to joke about, I know ... but then again, it wasn't a joke. Uh. I think the term I'm looking for is hyperbole. And I made it because I'm a bloody idiot. this is an emo emoticon, get it??? EMO-TICON!!!

EDIT: And I plan on marrying him because I really think I love him. I'm not settling, by any means. I just think that if it doesn't work out (don't see why it would fail, but ...) I'll never find someone to replace him.
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Reply 15 of 111 (Originally posted on: 08-15-06 11:14:28 AM)
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Alloy there are millions of other guys who are just as ugly as him who'd love to go out with you, don't be so down on yourself.
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Reply 16 of 111 (Originally posted on: 08-15-06 11:20:00 AM)
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What did I tell you people about the caveman jokes?

That said, do you REALLY think his looks played much part in attraction?
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Reply 17 of 111 (Originally posted on: 08-15-06 11:30:33 AM)
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Obviously not.
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Reply 18 of 111 (Originally posted on: 08-15-06 11:42:18 AM)
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I am perfectly willing to get help. In fact, I want to. But my family doesn't believe I have problems. They think whatever kinked wire I have can be straightened out by hard work, dedication and setting goals. I don't get either help or support from any of them. They delight in calling me "retarded" and "abnormal" every time I do something wrong.



Did you get your family's permission to fly in some dude from the internet?
1. if so, they have strange priorities
2. if not, why does it suddenly matter what they think?

Excuses, excuses!
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Reply 19 of 111 (Originally posted on: 08-15-06 11:51:46 AM)
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They did give me permission. And yes, their priorities ARE weird. Don't even get me started.

I think the bottom line is, I'm happy with Daniel and I see no reason to leave him, either now or in the future. And it's my goddamn choice people. Shiny? big grin
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Reply 20 of 111 (Originally posted on: 08-15-06 11:57:41 AM)
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There you go, thats better.

Ya gotta take this discussion by the scruff and drag it where you want it to go.
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Reply 21 of 111 (Originally posted on: 08-15-06 03:40:51 PM)
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What’s wrong with all you people (except uselessinformation.) Why are you all so eager to get married?

Hahaha.

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I am perfectly willing to get help. In fact, I want to. But my family doesn't believe I have problems. They think whatever kinked wire I have can be straightened out by hard work, dedication and setting goals. I don't get either help or support from any of them. They delight in calling me "retarded" and "abnormal" every time I do something wrong.

That's a common attitude in older generations.
"Just stop whining and work hard like i've had to do, you fucking pussy".

Your parents sound like my father.

I can certainly see where they're coming from, though.
Imagine having grown up 40 or 50 years ago in Russia or Germany, and now when the material standard of living is so much higher and everything is easier and young people get pretty much everything they need for free, your kid just sits around the house being all gloomy and complaining about how they can't handle every day life.

It must feel like a provocation.

I used to just hate him and think he was a primitive moron, of course, but i've gotten some perspective on it.
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Reply 22 of 111 (Originally posted on: 08-15-06 03:59:47 PM)
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You know what the kicker is?

My family has a history of mental illness.

They STILL won't get me help. Though my mother threatened to send me to a mental hospital a few hours ago.
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Reply 23 of 111 (Originally posted on: 08-15-06 04:02:51 PM)
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Though my mother threatened to send me to a mental hospital a few hours ago.

See, a step in the right direction! i'm a serial-killer :)
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Reply 24 of 111 (Originally posted on: 08-15-06 04:15:58 PM)
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Why do you need your parents to allow you to seek help? Can't you just talk to your GP off your own back or something? If no one else is willing to help (or listen it seems) then you've got to sort it out yourself - and not resign yourself to "Oh Lord I shall probably die in 15 years" or some such nonesense.
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